As I usually do with my more serious blogs:
**Doodle Illusion Alert: Do not read the following post. I do think serious thoughts sometimes!**
Alright – step aside happy Doodle, step forward the more serious Doodle. *Taaaa-daaaa!*
Okay, all fanfare aside. I enjoy writing, and I also enjoy playing around lots, but I also think lots. Too much for my own good, some would say. Nevertheless, I do. I’ve also experienced my fair share of the ‘difficult’ times in life – no more, no less than the next person I suppose, but having a propensity for thinking means that I usually end up drifting off looking for something to give meaning to whatever I am thinking about.
On of my observations of my experience on Second Life (SL) has been that I am getting a chance to do and be things that I normally wouldn’t. I kind of see it as the equivalent of peeling away little layers of me and after every layer, it’s like there is a little surprise waiting for me. Sometimes these layers don’t reveal themselves until after I’ve logged off for the day, or had a chit chat with a good friend or two in SL (the ones that can tolerate my screwy philosophical thinking.)
Oh boy… I am rambling, aren’t I? Okay… I ran across this poem a long long time ago. Up until today I did not know who the author was, and lo and behold, surprise! It is now credited. I have not had a chance to research the author and guaranteed that I will. Since I have carried this poem in my head for over twenty years, I figure I owe the author that much – he presented me with a gift – something said that I could not find the words to. Read and enjoy.
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PLEASE HEAR WHAT I’M NOT SAYING
Don’t be fooled by me.
Don’t be fooled by the face I wear
For I wear a mask, a thousand masks,
Masks that I’m afraid to take off
And none of them is me.
Pretending is an art that’s second nature with me,
but don’t be fooled,
for God’s sake don’t be fooled.
I give you the impression that I’m secure,
that all is sunny and unruffled with me,
within as well as without,
that confidence is my name and coolness my game,
that the water’s calm and I’m in command
and that I need no one,
but don’t believe me.
My surface may be smooth but
my surface is my mask,
ever-varying and ever-concealing.
Beneath lies no complacence.
Beneath lies confusion, and fear, and aloneness.
But I hide this. I don’t want anybody to know it.
I panic at the thought of my weakness exposed.
That’s why I frantically create a mask to hide behind,
a nonchalant sophisticated facade,
to help me pretend,
to shield me from the glance that knows.
But such a glance is precisely my salvation,
my only hope, and I know it.
That is, if it is followed by acceptance,
If it is followed by love.
It’s the only thing that can liberate me from myself
from my own self-built prison walls
from the barriers that I so painstakingly erect.
It’s the only thing that will assure me
of what I can’t assure myself,
that I’m really worth something.
But I don’t tell you this. I don’t dare to. I’m afraid to.
I’m afraid you’ll think less of me,
that you’ll laugh, and your laugh would kill me.
I’m afraid that deep-down I’m nothing
and that you will see this and reject me.
So I play my game, my desperate, pretending game
With a façade of assurance without
And a trembling child within.
So begins the glittering but empty parade of Masks,
And my life becomes a front.
I tell you everything that’s really nothing,
and nothing of what’s everything,
of what’s crying within me.
So when I’m going through my routine
do not be fooled by what I’m saying.
Please listen carefully and try to hear what I’m not saying,
what I’d like to be able to say,
what for survival I need to say,
but what I can’t say.
I don’t like hiding.
I don’t like playing superficial phony games.
I want to stop playing them.
I want to be genuine and spontaneous and me
but you’ve got to help me.
You’ve got to hold out your hand
even when that’s the last thing I seem to want.
Only you can wipe away from my eyes
the blank stare of the breathing dead.
Only you can call me into aliveness.
Each time you’re kind, and gentle, and encouraging,
each time you try to understand because you really care,
my heart begins to grow wings –
very small wings,
but wings!
With your power to touch me into feeling
you can breathe life into me.
I want you to know that.
I want you to know how important you are to me,
how you can be a creator–an honest-to-God creator –
of the person that is me
if you choose to.
You alone can break down the wall behind which I tremble,
you alone can remove my mask,
you alone can release me from the shadow-world of panic,
from my lonely prison,
if you choose to.
Please choose to.
Do not pass me by.
It will not be easy for you.
A long conviction of worthlessness builds strong walls.
The nearer you approach me
the blinder I may strike back.
It’s irrational, but despite what the books may say about man
often I am irrational.
I fight against the very thing I cry out for.
But I am told that love is stronger than strong walls
and in this lies my hope.
Please try to beat down those walls
with firm hands but with gentle hands
for a child is very sensitive.
Who am I, you may wonder?
I am someone you know very well.
For I am every man you meet
and I am every woman you meet.
